Yasue Ota has been a registered
midwife in Japan for about 10 years and is now teaching maternity nursing and
midwifery at Juntendo University in Chiba. Yasue discovered The HUG website and was attracted to the words,
‘Baby Zones and SOSs’. Yasue thinks that “HUG Your Baby Zones and SOSs” are
such a wonderful and easy tool to help new parents understand their baby.
Read the exciting account,
below, of how using The HUG kept one Japanese mother from giving formula!
I visited Maya when she was 2
weeks old. That was just 1 week after leaving the hospital.Her mother, Tomoko, told me that Maya cries all the time. Tomoko
felt that perhaps her breast milk is not enough for her baby. So Tomoko was
wondering if her baby might need a little formula.I shared with Tomoko the following ideas about a baby’s crying:
Most normal, healthy babies
begin to cry more around forty-two weeks gestation, or two weeks after birth
(if the baby was born full-term). Babies typically move from crying two hours a
day to crying three hours a day by six weeks of age. Then their crying tapers
to about one hour a day by twelve weeks of age.
I explained some
easy-to-remember tips to Tomoko, who says what all new parents holding a crying
baby say: “Just tell me what TO DO!” Sharing HUG Your Baby concepts, I told
T – Talk to your baby. Lean
over and use a persistent, sing-songy voice close to her ear. Give your baby a
few seconds to notice and respond to your voice.
O – Observe your baby's efforts
to contribute to his own calming.
Maya was crying loudly while I talked
to Tomoko. We paused to observe Maya’s efforts to calm herself. We were
delighted to see Maya bringing her hand to her mouth, sucking her finger, and
starting to quiet. Tomoko was surprised to learn that babies have instinctive
behaviors that help them calm down.
I added another tip to DO (to
calm the baby): If the baby is still crying, hold
her arms against her chest and continue that quiet, persistent talking—and
encourage the baby to suck your finger or the breast, or swaddle her safely.
Maya started to cry again and
Tomoko leaned over the baby and spoke quietly into her ear. When Maya continued
to cry Tomoko waited a moment and then noticed that the baby smacked her lips.
The baby then quiets right down when Tomoko holds her tiny but strong arms
securely against her chest.With a smile on her face, the mother then brought the baby to the
breast for a good feed. “Now I see how I can work it all out without any
formula!” Tomoko tells me.
I really feel pleasure in
seeing the "ah ha" moments parents have when I use The HUG ideas and
teaching strategies as they relate to their individual baby. I think HUG Your
Baby is such a useful tool for facilitating breastfeeding, fostering
mother-baby bonding, and enhancing parent confidence.
Award-Winning DVDhelps parents read their baby's body language to prevent and solve problems with eating, sleeping crying, and parent-child bonding.
Issues of Confidentiality
Specific names and circumstances in this blog are fictional. .
Jan Tedder, BSN, FNP, IBCLC
Jan Tedder, BSN, IBCLC, Family Nurse Practitioner
Jan has worked in a primary care setting with babies and their families for thirty years. A graduate of UNC Charolotte and Chapel Hill, she has lectured at both national and international conferences. She has been honored as the NC Maternal Child Health Nurse of the Year. Her website, DVD, and online training are winners of the 2007 and 2009 National Health and WWW Awards.